A virgin is what most of the men in all corners of the world need no matter how many dalliances they have themselves been involved in. Why is it okay for a man to be dallianceful and why is it expected a woman to be dallianceless? Why is it that we all live in the same world but still have different rules for different genders? Both men and women should be free to choose their partner and their partner does not necessarily needs to be the same person.
Everyone should be free to live the life they love irrespective of their gender. Is is very much a possibility that the dalliances may not have been deliberate and the concerned man could have been innocent. Maybe, his love for her would have been true and maybe she would have pretended that her love for him is true and then after few days, her true colours would have been exposed and therefore, he would have moved on.
There could have been many similar girls in his life. But, it is also possible that he really has a penchant for dalliances. In that case, he should be blamed and he has no right whatsoever to expect his girl to be a virgin. Similarly, the person who broke a girl’s virginity could have pretended that his love for her is true and the girl would have really loved him and therefore, she would have given her consent for it.
So, even if a girl is not a virgin, she can be a great human being and she can complete the life of even the best of men. True love is always unconditional so you should stay away from the ones who want their partner to be a virgin or dallianceless. Whatever applies to girls should always apply to boys too only then a relationship will last forever…
Eshan Colvinian's Tears of Crimson 